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| Michael & Abby-Urban Assault Ride-Austin, Texas |
In all honesty, my brain cannot wrap itself around it being
our 26th day in ICU with Michael. I cannot fathom how that many 24 hour periods of time could
possibly have passed, or that there are things happening that we will someday
need to tell Michael about, because he wasn’t with us to experience them. Only two things are clear to me at this
time…..Michael will be proud of how the kids and I have gotten through this
time, and that he will be overwhelmed by the love and support that has been
shown to our family. Lord knows,
there isn’t one without the other……the kids and I would be a mess if it weren’t
for the thoughts, prayers and support of so many….it is literally carrying us
right now.
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| Off on a bike/camping adventure |
I knew just enough going in, to know that life in ICU is a
roller coaster. I have watched
enough friends go through it, and experienced it myself almost 24 years ago the
first time Michael was in ICU. It
does little to prepare you, at least for this length of stay.
Michael started out doing well, considering the extent of
his injuries. He got through both surgery to repair his hip, as well as to
rebuild his left rib cage in the week after the accident. However then
contracted both MRSA in his right lung (the one not injured in the accident)
along with yeast, and MRSA in his blood.
With this, the decision was made to do a tracheotomy since our time on
the ventilator was already extended, and would continue for some time. We
battled these infections for the better part of a week, and then finally started
to see him turn the corner towards the next steps in this process.
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| Michael & Madi |
Two days into the turn around, another set back, this one
more significant than the first (as hard as that is to imagine). Fevers started spiking, and while it
was clear there was a “bug” somewhere, we had to go hunting for it. Sadly, it was his lungs, both of them
now very sick. What progress we
had made in weaning sedation and the ventilator were lost and we went back to
square one. We did so though with
the knowledge that he could follow commands when the sedation was reduced
enough, and that he has amazing lungs that, even with a significant infection,
were able to tolerate a reduction of the vent. These two tidbits have made losing so much ground at least a
little easier to swallow. I can rest easier knowing them.
As of today, while I am not quite able to say we have turned
the corner on this latest infection yet, I can say we are moving in that
direction. Each day his lungs look
a smidge better on x-ray, his labs move a little more in the right direction,
and we are all breathing easier with him.
He is still very sedated at this time, and the ventilator is doing all
the work of breathing, but assuming we get through this weekend without any
surprises, an attempt to reduce the pressure being given by the vent may start
early next week. Then the process
of weaning sedation and the vent begins again.
His injuries from the accident have been healing during all
of this. The small brain bleed and
lacerated spleen have healed…..the last of the chest tubes was removed from the
left lung yesterday and the lung injuries sustained are healing…..and the many
broken bones are slowly but surely doing their thing.
The doctors are still taking things very day by day with my
love, and so, for sanity’s sake, am I.
I have some vague ideas of what the next steps in this process will be,
but trying to put some time frame on it all continues to just not be possible. It almost always is in cases like
this. My mantra of taking one day
at a time and making it the best it can be is getting a run for its money J
I really am doing okay. I probably analyze myself and my
reactions to things more than most, and do so mostly because I find it
fascinating how emotions and the mind work. This experience has been no exception. My reactions and typical modes of
operation have been turned upside down in this case, but not so much in a bad
way. Unlike my usual approach to
something medical, I asked few questions and emotionally protected myself from
the extent of what we had going on in the beginning. I just simply could only deal with a little bit at a
time. It was days before I asked
about or looked at any labs….actually, it was more than a week into it
all. I minimized my interactions
with anyone I thought might have more information to share than I could handle,
and slowly worked my way into this whole mess. The difference for me from chronic care to traumatic is
substantial, and far more than I could have ever anticipated. It has thankfully all just happened
without any real thought on my part.
I have been at peace from the beginning with how I was dealing with it,
and how I needed to deal with it all has just been so very clear cut, I have
yet to question any of it. All
this to say, I am coping. I did
talk with some people that would know this last week, and they confirm I am
still sane (always good to know…LOL).
The kids are coping remarkably well too, each in their own
way. They ask a little more about
what’s going on each day, and I suspect, like me, they are emotionally
protecting themselves till they are ready. I get it and can totally walk that walk with them. They are being loved on and entertained
(read: distracted) by amazing people that we are so blessed to have in our
lives. And they, like me, are
gearing up for the long haul. The
stress of it all is taking a toll on their health, and each one is dealing with
some issues right now, but we have an amazing team of doctors that are quite
literally at our beck and call, and that makes a huge difference.
What I know, without question, is that we will all be
okay. We will find a way to accept
our “new normals” and we will continue to truly LIVE as we have for so many
years before this.
Our gratitude for all the support of so many is immeasurable.
There are simply no words worthy of describing it. Our friends and family are
amazing!!
A few links to some awesome articles & blog posts about Michael.....
Dallas Trinity Trails Blog: http://dallastrinitytrails.blogspot.com/2012/05/michael-tripp-mcnair.html?m=0
and this one including a link to the WFAA news story: http://dallastrinitytrails.blogspot.com/2012/05/wfaa-story-on-michael-tripp-mcnairs.html?m=0
Dallas Morning News: http://www.dallasnews.com/news/community-news/dallas/headlines/20120518-dallas-bike-advocate-mike-mcnair-seriously-injured-by-car.ece
D Magazine Blog: http://frontburner.dmagazine.com/2012/05/21/michael-mcnair-bicycling-advocate-seriously-injured-in-crash/
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